Monday, May 4, 2009

Anonymous said...

My son died in a traffic accident almost 3 years ago. My questions are....Why did you let him die? He was only 14 years old. Why didn't you save him? Why did you let this happen to our family? Why us? Because of losing our son and brother, we can never be happy again. Never!


Answer from God through Carley:

"First, I am very sorry for your pain and the loss of your son. I did not let him die. His injuries caused his death.

I'd like you to try to remember your agreement with me before you came into this life. If you can remember any of it, you'll remember that this is what you agreed to endure, as did your entire family, including your son.

Because you have experienced such great loss, doesn't mean that you have to stay in it. From great sorrow can come great beauty. When you are ready to release your sense of loss and anger, come to me and ask me to take it away. None of these feelings serve you or your family or even the memory of your son, in any way.

There is much living for you and your family to do. When you are ready, ask for help and know that you'll have it. You are all loved beyond measure."
Raynee said...

Lord, I have not felt this way in a very long time. As a matter of fact, I don't believe I have ever felt this feeling before.
I am ashamed and hurt of/by my husband, and I don't know how to go about it, or if it is nessecary to go about this, or if what I have confounded within myself is even truth. Upon attempting to confront my husband with this, I felt as though I would never solve anything, or as though he felt that his harsh exterior solved me.
Please help me and take some of this emotional burden, because I don't want to go about my life feeling this way... Are my feelings just? Should I talk to my husband about this? and if I should, how can I?

Answer from God through Carley:

"Yes, your feelings are just. It is important that you learn to use your voice. You need to talk to him about how you feel and then you need to decide what your boundaries are. Keeping your feelings quiet will not serve you. Ask for strength and the words that will get through best and know that you will have all of that and more."

Saturday, May 2, 2009

Anonymous said...

Dear God,
I used to see him around a lot and those encounters has given me the opportunity to see the many different sides of him. After seeing these different sides of him, I've come to believe he is one of the most close-to perfect characters I've met so far. But lately, I don't see him around anymore. Is this a sign that we're not meant-to-be, or that I've gotten too attached? If this is so, why were all those things about his personality displayed to me in the beginning? We were never friends and I avoided him in the beginning, but I felt all our encounters were more than coincidence. I hope I wasn't fooling myself.

Answer from God through Carley:

"There is no such thing as coincidence. Your feelings are me talking to you. Now all you have to do is act if you'd like to accept the perfect partner I've brought into your life. Stop over-thinking things and understand that I speak to you through your gut. Your prayers are answered. Believe it."

Wednesday, April 29, 2009

Labirent said...

If you think he is the one and he treats you very badly and tells you off what shall you do? If he tells you to leave him alone for awhile should you or should you not?

Answer from God through Carley:

"If you think he is the one when he treats you this way, you are mistaken. I would never pick for you a relationship where you felt less than completely safe and loved. I have such great plans for you. Ask me for the perfect partner and then allow me the space and time to bring you together. While you wait, be outside of a relationship and work on you - becoming the kind of person that your perfect partner would love."

Tuesday, April 28, 2009

it's me said...

I'm getting tiried of life. i feel hatred for my self... the sadness is building up. I feel less and less each day. I'm putting on a good front. I stutter, I feel stupid at my job, I hate how I feel in my own skin and I want to go back to school. I'm losing my drive, passion , sense of self... I'm losing light. It's getting bad God. What is it that you want me to do? Teach me Lord. I'm scared.I know you want me to have love and give love. I'm dying inside slowly.


Answer from God through Carley:

"When life is lived inside your own world, the world can easily get small and dark. I would like you to do something for someone else. I would like you to dedicate time to helping others. When you give to another being, you shed light. When you shed light, you cannot help but bring my light to your own life too. It's really very easy. You've already made the first step by seeking me and asking me to help show you the way. Now all you have to do is act with love. I'm right here beside you in your every step."
Anonymous said...

I have been struggling on weather to leave my husband or not. It has gone on now for 7 yrs. I need peace. I leave and I want to go back. I go back and don't want to be with him.This isweighting on everyone what should I do to be happy in my life?


Answer from God through Carley:

"It is not the question as to whether or not you should leave your husband, but rather the fact that you are wondering whether or not you should leave, that is a telling indicator of the status of your relationship. What are your fears? Your standard of living will change if you leave your marriage, however when you are in a state of joy the entire Universe opens up to you and anything you dream of when you ask for help and move in the direction of your dreams in some way, is attainable. Of course, the decision is always yours."
Anonymous said...

I am 36 and have been trying to get pregnant (& recently with the aid of fertility drugs) for awhile now without any success. I have asked this question before and tried dutifully to be unattached to timing but I am getting so discouraged. What can I do to help myself be open to pregnancy? I feel that I'm pressured by time because of my age and I feel so broken and just not worthy. Please heal my husband and I, and provide us positive energy to not give up.

Answer from God through Carley:

"Do you know why, after trying so hard to conceive unsuccessfully that a couple gives up only to discover they're expecting? It's because the Universe works best along the path of least resistance. It's important to know what you want and to imagine your self with what you want, but after you ask me for it, try not to think too hard about it. Keep your minds eye on the future, but live fully committed to the moment you are actually in and you won't miss a thing."

Monday, April 27, 2009

Anonymous said...

When will I find my new home & where will I find it?

Answer from God through Carley:

"Home is all about how a place feels. Home can be in the middle of a noisy city or far away from another human being. The answer to your question is how well do you know what you want? Explore. Spend time. Feel and breathe. You will know it when you experience it if you allow your self to not only see it, but feel it."

Saturday, April 25, 2009

Anonymous said...

Hey, God

I'm kinda wondering why I've had to be alone my whole life. My father left my family when I was 5, and since then I've had absolutely no luck in finding a male companion. I've heard having a boyfriend is overrated, but that doesn't stop me from wanting one. Is it because I'm fat?

Answer from God through Carley:

"I am very sorry that your father wasn't a part of your life. He missed a great deal.

I would like you to consider how you reacted to the hurt that you took on when your father left - how you still react. You determined when your father left, that he left you. That is not the truth. He left. It's not that he judged you to be not enough - you did that; that was your perception. How different can your life be if you change your perception from you not being worth sticking around for - to he simply left?

I would like you to examine your life - what works really well, what works pretty well and what simply doesn't work. You have the ability to change anything in your life. I suggest that you keep the things that work well, but change everything that doesn't work well. If you seek a love relationship, then I think you'll agree that it makes sense for you to become the person with whom your ideal partner would fall in love. You can do anything. I believe in you and I'm here to help you every time you seek me."

Thursday, April 23, 2009

Donkey said...

Who is the one for me?
Ogre has left my heart broken and I still love him with all of me. Do I let go and move on or do I follow my heart and give us another chance?
Does the love that we share come from you?

Answer from God through Carley:

"All love comes from me. I would like you to know true love. True love comes with a sense of knowing that you are safe and that you are treasured. Please get to know yourself better. Engage in things that give you joy and be grateful. Make a list of the things you would like in a partner. When you are ready to release your pain, ask me to take it from you as it clearly does nothing good for you. When your list is complete bring it to me and ask me for your perfect partner. Then all you need do is allow me the space and time to bring you together. Pay very close attention to those that come into your life. You never know who might be the messenger that will lead you to him."