Wednesday, December 24, 2008

Irishdi said...

Is Barry my soulmate or do I need to move on?

I was married to my children's dad for 16 years and he never fully committed himself to me and I was devastated when he left. That was 13 years (and alot of mistake)ago and I've finally found a man I can envision spending the rest of my life with. My kids like him and he fits in well with my family. I'm afraid to be married again.

If I could ask God one question, it would be---do I stay or do I move on?

Answer from God through Carley:

"If you can freely give your heart to another person, it is never wrong. Loving someone is always better than not loving someone. It wasn't wrong the first time, however one cannot change the free will of another. It is possible however to temporarily bend the free will of another, but that change would only be temporary. I would ask you to never settle for anyone who isn't fully committed but in the end, it is very important to know that no one belongs to anyone. Your children don't belong to you and neither does any friend or mate. Everyone in your life is there temporarily as you are also in their life temporarily. Whether you stay or move on is always up to you. When you are afraid you keep everything away from you - or as you said - never fully committing. To be afraid is also up to you."

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