Thursday, December 4, 2008

Kathy said...

My Heavenly Father,

I do need your guidance. I feel guilty for the feelings that are getting stronger everyday. My elderly mother demands more and more time without taking any consideration of my marriage. I'm more than willing to do what I can for her golden years as I do love her dearly. She lives alone and is very lonely and has a hard time walking plus has poor vision. She lives miles plus a ferry ride away from us. She expects me to leave my home and husband to spend at least 2 to 3 nights each week. We pay her bills and her rent. We would like her to move to our home but will not leave her home or the friends that are still living. I know this is very hard for her. My father who passed 2 years ago ( though you know this) pampered my Mother and now I'm needing to put my life on hold to be my father. I really hate the resentment that is bulding in my heart. She has always been a good mother to me why can I not be a good daughter to her?

Answer from God through Brian:

"I am sorry this is not going the way I had intended. Your mother has used her free will to stay in her home however she is not hearing her angels when they tell her to go with you. You need to make sure your husband understands your mother's needs. Make an agreement with your mother and your husband so they both know what you can give them. Your resentment is natural and as long as you can clear yourself you will be fine."

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