Thursday, March 5, 2009

Esther said...

It seems that the one thing I have wanted most of my adult life is a husband that will love me as I love him. This has eluded me. I am very much in love with a man now. He has said he loves me and I believe him, even though the relationship is very rocky right now. He seems to purposely not tell me he loves me now. He does call "just to make sure I'm alright" and sends me text messages such as "YOU ARE STILL PRECIOUS AND A WONDERFUL JEWEL IN MY HEART". We have both been having problems, separately. I have never loved any man the way I love him and no man has had the effect on me that he has. I pray for him constantly. I worry about his health. I know I have some things to straighten out and so does he. This is part of my prayers also. I see so much good in him, but right now there seems to be a lot of anger. Is it alright for me to pray specifically for God to heal our relationship and make it permanent and should I wait patiently for him? Or is my praying and waiting in vain?

Answer from God through Carley:

"So you seek something you have yet to find and you are aware that you have some things to work on. Mixed signals from another belong to the other confuse. Emotions of another are not your emotions. Find your North. Be true to you and when mixed signals are received while you are learning, ask yourself if what confuses you belongs to you. Simplify. If you seek a healthy loving relationship become the type of person you seek. Work on healing yourself purposefully and with dedication and kindness. You can pray for anyone and I recommend it. When you pray for something to heal without taking action to heal it I'm given nothing to work with."

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