Monday, March 9, 2009

Paulo said...

Dear Lord,

As you know, things in my life have been very difficult. Especially in regards to my relationship with my son and his mother. There is also this woman that I met on the subway around valentine's. For some reason I feel this strong connection with her. Will I ever see her again? What should I do in regards to my son and better the situation, and with my family as well. I've been praying/meditating, and going to church. I'm trying to rebuild that close relationship we once had. But I still feel as if I'm walking blindly. I feel as if I lost many of my abilities I once had. My passion for music, poetry, art. To love again. I know that there is still much negativity affecting me in my life. What do you have planned for me lord? I trust you, and I know you understand my situation. I'm trying my best to do what is right. But my question is, where is my life headed? What is it that you would like me to do with my life? What choices do I need to make?

Answer from God through Carley:

"The most important question you need to answer is "who am I?" Only you can answer that question. What is important to you? What do you stand for? What is acceptable and unacceptable to you? Once you answer these many questions, you'll know yourself better. When you find yourself and set your limits, most other things will naturally fall into place. If you value your son then you will value his mother. If you desire to be the parent your son needs, become that parent. Children need their parents to parent them while they're young. They need to feel important and safe and loved regardless of their parents marital situation. You need to love your son, even if that means you need to sacrifice. Jumping into another relationship before you become who you strive to be, will benefit no one. Forgo your own need for personal companionship until you son is secure and happy with you as his father."

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