Wednesday, May 27, 2009

John K said...

I've been with a woman for 14 years, every year seems to not be exciting as the first year wasn't neither... i met a woman now who's exciting and i enjoy being around. i ask unto you God do i seperate from the first woman that i've cared for so many years but never loved for this woman that i've know for 5 years and love? This question holds answers for the rest of my life.

Answer from God through Carley:

"Day to day life isn't always exciting. It's the everyday, the regular, the routine in which real love is the glue. You choose your excitement, make your joy, create your magic in the simplest things in life. Let me ask you to consider this; in the last 14 years of your life in this relationship, when you think about the really great moments, were you alone or were the great moments shared? If you were alone in your fondest memories then you owe it to both of you to move on as you are not serving the relationship. On the other hand, if you can remember the really great moments as shared moments, I'd ask you to think carefully about what you consider to be exciting. Stability, a sense of ease and comfort, of even predictability can be good things. But in all things you have complete control of what you do and how exciting your role in any relationship can be."

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