Monday, July 13, 2009

Moonsister JB said...

My fiance of 4 years dumped me before the wedding and threw me out of my own house. Now he's having a baby with his new girlfriend. My question is why should I keep living when all i seek is relief from the pain and yet it continues to drive deeper into my heart.

Answer from God through Carley:

"I'm sorry that the actions of another caused you such pain. While your pain is subsiding, I'd like you to remember that you can only control your own free will. The free will of another is all theirs.

I'd like you to imagine how his same actions would have felt if you were married and with children. Perhaps your prayers for a really great life were answered with his actions displayed before your marriage. Perhaps the pain you felt in this particular situation is a lesser pain than it might have been, because you asked for a great life.

When you are really ready to let go of the pain and of the self-doubt his actions created in you, come to me and ask me to take them away and know that it will be done.

In your next relationship I'd like you to decide to keep your eyes wide open and to not see just what you want to see, but to see what is. Make a list of what you want in a loving relationship and check it from time to time. Never settle for less than what you want, but at the same time work hard to possess the same kind of qualities that are in the person you seek."

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