Thursday, October 1, 2009

buddyhiya said...

Why does my wife want to reconnect with guys who hurt her in the past? She says she needs to do this to prove to herself that she has grown and moved past them. Why reopen old wounds???

Answer from God through Carley:

"There are two answers to your question. The first is about your wife. Try to think of the reconnecting as a way to release pain. Facing what has caused you pain in the past is a wonderful and courageous way of healing. It's a lot like forgiveness, in that when you face your pain you have the ability to release it. Hanging on to painful situations only keeps the pain in your heart. Facing the pain and realizing that you no longer need to feel it, makes room for love to come in.

Now for the second answer, and this one is for you. I have given you nothing. That is to say that everything in your life is temporary. With this knowledge, I hope that you will act in such a way that tells everyone you love, that you love them in both your words as well as in your actions. I hope that you will release your grip on what really isn't yours anyway, and allow others to follow their own path without feeling threatened or uncomfortable. Just be love. Just be love."

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