Saturday, November 28, 2009

Anonymous said...

qual e o meu nome

Answer from God through Carley:

"Your name, just like my name is anything you choose. I am known by many different names to many different people. I have no preference as to which name is used, however I do care very much whether or not I am called upon. If you are asking if I know you, the answer is yes, I know you very well. I do not require a name for you to know you. If you are asking for proof that I know you, you will have to look into your heart for that answer."
Anonymous said...

dear god i am just feel really werid just now i am only 14 years old and i dont no who to talk i well there is this boy i like and he is going with this girl and i like her and everything but she cheated on him with his best friend she only kissed him but he took her back and i fell for him before they got back together and we still talk and evrything but one day he said he liked me and he was still goin with her but then obv he stopped and i think i still like him a lot and i dont know what to do should i stop talking to him and move on or will i still talk to him and do you think i will fall out of love with him i really need your help love youx

Answer from God through Carley:

"You have much living and learning ahead of you. For now, try hard to treat others the way you would appreciate being treated. Try to imagine the conversation in your head as though someone else were having it with you. How would you feel if someone came to you and told you that a boy you were going with cheated on you, even if it was only a kiss? Stop for a second and feel it. How would you respond? How would you feel about the person that told you this? What if you had the conversation with the girl? Would you ask her to treat her boyfriend differently? What words would you use? Perhaps after imagining your conversations with everyone involved, you'll decide to leave it alone and let them work it out for themselves. What you could learn from this is that you can only control how you behave. Falling for someone already in a relationship cannot end well. You have a good heart. Listen to it carefully. That is where you'll find me. Your heart will never steer you down the wrong path."
Anora said...

Dearest God,

Am 29 and as yet, still not settled in life by any means. I am a very talented and well qualified person, but I have no job. I was married to a man who will never love me and now am in love with a man who will never marry me. All I want is someone to love and to hold for the rest of my life. I feel so lonely and lost.

The only light in my life is my 3 year old daughter. My parents helped me raise her. And she's such a delightful and beautiful little girl. Brilliant, intelligent, smart, creative, highly observant and very expressive with her love. She's the only thing that gives meaning to my life.

Her love and the process of caring for her has kept me sane all this while, even through the really rough ride I have had, the past few years.

I was quite lucky to come out alive, from the hands of an abusive husband who was never there for me or my baby. And the only other relationship I have ever had is with another guy who after a year of living together has made it very clear that he can't tell his folks about marrying a lady with a child.

Right now am going through a very bad time and am really low. I was invited to join a company in a high post, but due to certain ill-luck, I lost that job just weeks into it. So much of aspirations rest on me... and I feel like a loser, like a sinking ship. I feel like a failure, as I have not been able to achieve any of my dreams.

O God, is there light for me at the end of this tunnel? I have had thoughts of ending it all. But am no coward to shy away from living. Please help me out God. I need you.

Answer from God through Carley:

"When you are unable to achieve your dreams, re-examine your dreams. Perhaps take smaller achievable steps before you learn to run. You have a daughter who is the light in your life, become the light in her life. Step up to your potential and be the woman she believes you to be. Dream for you and your daughter and achieve those dreams because she is counting on you to do so and to show her how it's done.

You cannot be happy in a love relationship until you are happy outside of one. Pick men to be with who fully embrace the light in your life - as you two are one.

You are defined by the choices you make. What do your choices say about you? What do you want the world to know about you? How will you tell the world who you are and what you care about? I am always right here. All you need to do is ask for help and move in some way toward what it is you seek paying very close attention to the little things that come your way."

Tuesday, November 24, 2009

Anonymous said...

Dear God,

I am really confused. I am 21 years old. I wish I can return back to a child. I don't understand why I have became so cunning and evil. Why I began to hate people and think of them as annoyance. I have no direction in life. I wish I could be happy again.

Can you please teach me how to be happy? Would you please guide me through? Please help me. I used to believe with such utter faith, but now my faith for this world, for god, and for anyone including myself is deteriorating.

Could you please send me an angel to guide me through this difficult time?

Thank you God, with very much love.

Answer from God through Carley:

"Ah, you have forgotten. In order for you to remember happy, you must first find a single thing to do that brings you true joy. Once found, spend time with that thing as often as you can. Make a list each day of no less than 5 things in your day that you are grateful for. Do one kind thing for someone you don't know every day. When you've done these things consistently, come back to me and tell me if you still need direction in order to get back to happy."

Monday, November 23, 2009

Nic said...

Dear God,
What are you doing and what do you want to say to my church family and community?

Answer from God through Carley:

"I am overseeing all. I'd like to tell you, your church family and all humanity to see yourselves in every single living being. Treat each and every single living being as though it was a being that you deeply love, and consider precious. I'd ask you to accept each being as they are in the moment that you encounter them, understanding that their free will is not your free will and as you have been entitled to use yours, so have they. I would also ask you to consider that every relationship in every life is circular. In order to take you must also give. In order to complete the circle you not only need to accept the help offered by another, but you need to help another. Do not worry so much about a single circle but instead feel the symphony that the act of both giving and receiving makes and understand how each being is deeply connected directly through me."

Sunday, November 22, 2009

Anonymous said...

It is so ironical dear God that whenever I have asked for something in my life I have always received it but never been happy with it. I love Vishal [last name removed] and now I am afraid to ask for him. I love him and yet I cannot express my feelings for him. I have hardly talked to him about my feelings and now I fear he has a girlfriend and I will never ever be able to either tell him my feelings or even have a friendly chat. He is extremely sober and gentlemanlike but God I want you to tell me if he is the one for me. Some hint or sign. I want to have him in my life and be his wife. I want to tell him how much I love him and want to have a peaceful contented and successful married life with Vishal [last name removed]. Will this ever happen God? Each time I see him, I wish I could reach out to him and tell him the depth of my emotions but everytime I restrain myself and hold back my feelings. I love him and would love to be tied up in holy wedlock with the man from Thane.

God, can you tell me if this is going to happen?

Answer from God through Carley:

"He has the potential for being right for you, but then so do many others. It might have happened between you if you had said what you wanted to say, when you first wanted to say it. Not doing so has changed events as much as saying what you were feeling might have changed them. It is extremely important to act upon each feeling and emotion that is based in love. Fear nothing that is based in love.

As far as not being happy with the things that you receive in your life that you have asked for, I suggest that you ask for different things, as things in general can never really make you happy or satisfied for very long."
vishal said...

hii god..
i am a guy frm india.i am 20 yrs.see the thing is i ont know what my problem is.i had many girls in my life till 12th.but after i came 2 bangalore for my engineering.its been 1 yr i dont hv neone in my life.i am good lukin,pretty rich and a nice guy bur nothings working out here.i have lost all my confidence i had.i know it matters less.there are other important things but sometymz i feel very lonely.guyz less than me are all happy nd with all girlfriend.i dont know my problem god...will i get a nice girl in these 3 yrs left.

Answer from God through Carley:

"In order to have what you seek in a relationship, you must first become what you seek. Transform yourself into the kind of person your ideal partner would want. Until you are happy being by yourself, you cannot be truly happy in a relationship. True happiness comes from within. No other person or thing for that matter, can can make you happy. So you see, whether or not you get a nice girl is entirely up to you. It has always been up to you."

Friday, November 20, 2009

Anonymous said...

What are your view on homosexuality and abortion?

Answer from God through Carley:

"I love completely, each of my creations. Every single creation begins exactly as it is supposed to begin. There are no accidents and there are no unintended outcomes. I have also given to each being free-will, and therefore each life can take countless varied paths. Before each lifetime the being and I create an agreement about what will be experienced in the lifetime. Everyone who will touch that life in anyway, is also playing their part in the agreement. Some lives are very short and some very long. Some lives are filled with health and some with illness. Some lives are filled with struggles and some with great ease. Most lives however, are filled with a vast array of most of the above. Every life is a beloved child of mine. How a situation is reacted to, is completely up to the being in their specific situation. I welcome home each of my creations with open, loving arms."

Tuesday, November 17, 2009

Anonymous said...

hi God, can we pay our debt till friday? and where can we get the money to pay it? where can we get P120,000? thanks

Answer from God through Carley:

"Whenever you feel as though there is nowhere to turn to get what you need, take another look. Try to let go of what you've come to understand as what you need. I think you'd agree with me that while what you want can be very great, what you need can be very small. With that perspective, take a different look at your circumstances. Ask for my help, change your perspective and then pay very close attention to the seemingly little things that come your way. When you ask for help, you will always have what you need."

Monday, November 16, 2009

kim said...

Dear God,
This new man in my life, will he be the one that I asked for? The one that I've been waiting so long for? I'm unsure of his feelings and intentions. Please help me. I can't take another broken heart.

Answer from God through Carley:

"Whenever you ask for help and move toward what you seek in any way - small or large - trust that my help is given. When you have the feeling of uncertainty, listen to that feeling. If something you asked for feels as though it might not be right, it isn't. I will only bring you what is perfect for you, everything else you create on your own. Mend your heart before you get into another relationship. You are the only one who controls the condition of your own heart. No other person can make you whole. When you are in the wrong relationship, the perfect one cannot come to you."
Anette said...

Dear Lord
I question YOU!!!!!....just three short weeks ago i met a wonderful person "Eddie" {you know him well} , and altho i met him only once he made a lasting impression on me. 2 weeks ago i found out he was in the hospital fighting for his life...i prayed and meditated with him from a distance and couldnt get him off my mind...i lived for results of his condition and it was hard to understand why i cared so much for someone i only met once..Then yesterday @ 9:45 YOU ...took him away.... he was a young man a little over 30 ..i dont understand.... not for my loss which pales in comparison to the people that really love him.. Eddie was the kind of person we need here...and yet you alow scum of the earth to live and breath.. WHY? why do you always take the best of us so soon?...What do i do with this quandary? How do i make sence of it all and make things better...
Love, your daughter Anette

Answer from God through Carley:

"The body that every being lives in is a finite entity. How you care for that body will affect the quality of your lives in your bodies, but eventually each body will die. Each being has an agreement with me that covers many varied things. One of those things is the when and how the host body will die. I do not take anyone. Your life experiences and the other beings in your life are additionally agreed to - both by you as well as by the other beings in your life. By beings, I mean human, animal and plant.

I will tell you this; if you want to avoid grief, do and say everything you want to do and say that comes from love, when you feel it. Grief comes from a sense of regret, from things left undone and unsaid. If you want to feel complete, act from your heart in all things."
Anonymous said...

When did evil or negativity first exist? How was it created?

Answer from God through Carley:

"Negativity and evil began with the gift of free-will. Free-will is a powerful tool that can be used to create a space of gratitude, peace and joy, or a space of lack and envy and every other space between. The choices made determine how a life will go. Choose wisely."

Sunday, November 15, 2009

Somsri said...

I am alone in this world.I have parents but from childhood they are like my step parents.I live my house as an paying guest.I dont have any family.I am unlucky in love and career.People arround just use me and tease me all the time.But i want can cover everything up.I can live alone.I can save myself.If you are with me i can fulfill my dream.i can get out of this hell.all i need is just u stand by me.Atleast i can say that god is with me.Save me god.

Answer from God through Carley:

"I am most certainly with you. Our relationship is and has always been a partnership. When you seek my help, all you need do is ask for it, knowing that you will have it in any quest that is based in love. The part of the partnership that is yours, is to move. I cannot help you fulfill your dreams if you refuse to seek them. I cannot help you change your circumstances if you are not willing to create some change. If ever you think your prayers are not answered, look more closely. I answer every prayer. If you don't get the answer you seek exactly, take a look at your situation from a different perspective. The friends you make, the flowers that bloom, the opportunities that cross your path. Only you can make them, see them, take them, but know that I am with you and that every prayer is answered. The rest is up to you."

Saturday, November 14, 2009

Niki said...

First of all, I love you very much.
I've been with him for a long time, and it is the most satisfying, fulfilling relationship I've ever had. But a few days ago, he revealed to me that he kissed someone else, once...on a foolish whim. He's apologized and I think I know he truly regrets it...but the thing that really irks me is he told me he would never have revealed it, if I wouldn't have asked about him and her. I love him so much, but I can't stop thinking about it. I'm so lost, and sad, and confused. I hate dishonesty. I hate feeling this way. I'm not a jealous person, but all of a sudden I'm worrying about what he's doing, and who he's doing it with while I'm at work. Deep down inside I know he's not that kind of person..but I can't help but think about it. What should I do?

Answer from God through Carley:

"i love you too.

So you came to remember that he's human. So are you. Were you really happier when you thought him to be better than human? Do you really expect that what you had that moment before you knew he kissed her would last forever? Do you know that since everything is evolving all the time, absolutely nothing can remain the same? Wanting anything to remain the same is your error. When you expect things to change you are not surprised by change when it comes.

You know him. You know the man he is. Get your head out of it and remember him with your heart. That's where you'll find me. That's where you really know him. Instead of allowing yourself to feel lost, sad and confused - try happy, blessed and filled with joy that he's chosen to be with you. Enjoy the moments and the choices because you can only control what you do and how you act. Act with love and in gratitude and remember that you do not own anyone or any thing and the people and animals in your life are there on loan for a specific period of time. Live your life in the moments and you will really live."
Anonymous said...

I had a dream ,thst led me to believe that iam suppose to help people, like myself ,with substance abuse problems. I feel that by opening a sobriety house in my home town , for low iincome or indigent people, is what i should do.IS it? how do I get started? how do i get the funds to do this?

Answer from God through Carley:

"Thank you for realizing that your own struggles give you a way to learn and grow, and that they offer you a way to help others who might know similar struggles. As for what and how exactly to make your dreams and desires come true, there is one additional step that will make this easier for you. Loosen your grasp. I know that my request might seem to be counter productive, but I ask you to keep a general picture of what you'd like to do in your mind. You have asked for my help and now all you have to do is allow room in your vision to become a thing that might be even bigger and brighter than you ever imagined it could be. Keep moving in some way toward your goal - educate yourself - learn by asking what the community needs and then pay very close attention to the little things that come your way. Know that there really is no such thing as coincidence. Allow me to talk to you through what might seem to be a coincidence. Keep going. You are doing a fine job."

Friday, November 13, 2009

Anonymous said...

Will I ever be truly Happy?
Will I ever be normal?
will I ever understand any of it?
What has happened to me?
What needs to happen for me to "get it back"?

Answer from God through Carley:

"Close your eyes and remember what it felt like when you had it. Be in that moment. Realize what was different then, and how you were different. What mattered to you then? Whom did you honor?

Because energy does not move backward, you cannot get it back, however you can get to an even brighter place than you were before. Half comes from me. You get my help simply by asking for it. Your angels are poised to jump too, just for the asking, however we will only move in truth and love. With this fact in the forefront of your mind, once you've asked for our help, all you have to do is to move toward what you seek."
Anonymous said...

dear God,
For over a year i have dreamt about a blue eyed boy named Alexander whom i marry and live with forever. Does he exist or is he "made up"? When will I meet him?

Answer from God through Carley:

"Sometimes, we use dreams to communicate. Alexander does exist. Before you meet, you have some work to do. Create in yourself the qualities you seek in your perfect partner. That's your assignment. You do yours, and I'll do mine."
Anonymous said...

I tried to learn to play the trumpet four a couple of years, I keep getting cold sores and other sores on my lips and had to give it up. I would like to play again, is there any way I can keep from getting the lip sores? Maybe playing the trumpet is something that is not right for me. I don't have the corrrdination in my hands and fingers to play the piano.

Answer from God through Carley:

"Playing a musical instrument well requires dedication, time and practice. Playing the trumpet and your developing sores are not related, however the sores surely make playing the trumpet uncomfortable. If you are interested in playing the trumpet, analyze your diet to help keep your body at it's peak performance and add exercise to your daily routine. Balance that with plenty of regular sleep. Everything works together. In order to do anything well, the body that supports you must be well cared for on all levels. When you find anything that you really want to do, that gives you true joy, ask for my help and then move toward what you want. I'm right here cheering you on."
Anonymous said...

Many years ago I lost my uncle Hank and cousin John to suicide. Are they still stuck in Limbo or have they moved on to heaven? After reading this blog late last year, it said if I pray and ask for their release from Limbo, that would happen, so I prayed for their release. One other question, that happens to someone that intentionally give up their life so that another will live?

Answer from God through Carley:

"Your uncle and cousin are in Heaven. Thank you for praying for them.

As for your question about what happens to someone that intentionally gives up their life so that another could live, the body dies. Whether or not they are completing their agreement with me is a private matter between the soul and me. Free will is a gift I have given all beings and I will not take it will away, nor will I impede that gift. If a life is ended before an agreement is fulfilled, another chance is given. In fact, countless opportunities are given."

Thursday, November 12, 2009

Anonymous said...

Your answer to a question about Jesus Christ alarmed me. You said that Jesus died and untimely death and was stuck in Limbo. Considering what Jesus went through, that does not seem to be a fair reward at the time of his death? What is that all about? Does that mean that someone that dies in a war, or is run over by a bus gets sent to Limbo, possibly for eternity? And , someone who has commited evil acts that dies of natural causes is rewarded with Heaven? I know that those are multiple questions but they all relate to a central theme of fairness. Good men and women die of untimely deaths every day. They sacrifice their lives so others may live free. Why should they be sent to Limbo?

Answer from God through Carley:

"Thank you for your question. I understand and appreciate your struggle to align with what seems fair and what seems unfair. I would ask you to not judge. I am really the only one who knows when a death is timely or not; me and the being whose body ceases to live.

I have an agreement in place with every being. I ask you to consider that what might seem to be an unfair or untimely death might be exactly as designed. I also ask you to consider that once a soul lives, it never dies but rather the body in which the soul resides, dies. Regarding release from Limbo, there are those among you on earth that have the ability to instantly get a soul from Linbo to Heaven. You can do it too with prayer or meditation or a simple plea to your angels. Regardless of what you may have been taught or read, every single being is allowed entry into Heaven. I am the creator of all life, and I love each and every being equally. I am not Human and do not possess Human emotions. I will not bar any being or creation of mine from Heaven. Heaven is home and I am the father / mother who welcomes all of my creations home with open arms."

Wednesday, November 11, 2009

juju said...

for a long time i've been waiting for a girl friend for living a long perfect life together and i have'nt found one.is it my problem?when it will come?

Answer from God through Carley:

"A perfect life is filled mostly with joy and laughter. Before you can be truly happy with someone else, you need to be truly happy by yourself. No other person in your life will make you happy; only you hold the key to your happiness. Find what gives you true joy and invest in it, dedicate time to it, allow yourself to follow your passion and to simply be happy. Only then will you have what you need to be happy with another."
Anonymous said...

When will I finaly be in a healty, happy, fun, sharing, complimentry, & loving relationship with a man?

Answer from God through Carley:

"You have some work to do before you can realize your heart's desires. You must first become what it is you seek. If you seek the perfect partner you must create in you the partner your perfect partner would want. If it's the perfect job, you must them create in you the perfect employee. Wishing for something (asking) isn't enough all by itself. Ask for my help and then move in the direction of what you seek. You will always have my help. Will you do your part?"
Anonymous said...

Do you agree with what Neale Donald Walsch has written in his books?

Answer from God through Carley:

"Do I agree? Yes. Do I speak to him? Yes, but I also speak to everyone. Some try harder to hear me than others, and by trying harder I mean they really listen."

Tuesday, November 10, 2009

Anonymous said...

I am lost. There is a whole in my life. What am I missing? Why do I, at every turn, find nothing but despair, and the downtrodden existence I live? Is there no end to the depression I feel and see around me? Why do you not speak to me, man to man-like super being?

Answer from God through Carley:

"In even the worst of situations, something good can be found. I am all around you all of the time. Seek me, by looking for the good. Find me when you find the good. I would like you to get to know me better. Make time in your day to quiet your mind, allowing me in. This time doesn't need to be long, but rather daily time dedicated to just you and me. Reach out to others. Demonstrate love. Demonstrate compassion. Allow others room to love you in return. There is a circle of life all around you, and I ask you to embrace it. You were designed to be in the company of others. Reach out and allow others to give you the hand-up you need when you need it - and then be the hand-up others need in return."

Saturday, November 7, 2009

Andrea said...

Dear God,
You know the pain in mine and my children's hearts due to my fiance going to jail. I am praying for comfort for us all during his absence and the strength we need to get through this difficult time. I suppose I am asking as well for a miracle to bring him home soon. I would also like to beg for you to use this experience to forever change all of our hearts and minds to be able to serve you and make our lives right in your eyes.
Thank you and AMEN

Answer from God through Carley:

"Every situation you encounter, either personally or as seen as it happens to another, has the potential to change you - and the change can be either positive or negative. The choices you make in how you react to any given situation, define how these situations will affect you. The choices you make have far reaching consequences.

I'd like to remind you of one very important thing; I never planned a life of lack for you - for any of you. I planned your lives to be filled with joy and fulfillment and with laughter and love. While it is true that in each life there will be suffering, you can choose to minimize the suffering even in the attitude you adopt about your suffering. Is it your destiny to endure suffering or is it a blip on the radar of a fulfilled and happy life? Do you feel that you deserve to suffer, or that you have no choice but to suffer, or can you make a different choice and move back into a joyful life?

Your choices matter. Choose wisely."

Thursday, November 5, 2009

Anonymous said...

Hi God,
I think I am finally ready to move forward in my life, I have met someone, I have been numb for so long it is so nice to feel again.
I'm however scared to make the wrong choice or get hurt again. You have brought this person to me, I paid attention and you had me go somewhere to with my delight the person was there. Is that your signs that I am following you bringing me my life partner?

Answer from God through Carley:

"Yes. Well done. Numb is no way to live. Your faith is strong. Please let your faith be your guide. Trust your feelings, as I am your "gut". When you meet your perfect partner in anything, there is a strong sense of knowing. Don't allow your past experiences or your fear to bend that sense in any way. Spend time with me in still silence and allow me to answer your prayers."

Tuesday, November 3, 2009

Anonymous said...

Dear God,
I am becomeing subject to more frequent sexual thoughts and fantasies about people who are my friends. I do not want to think these things about the people I love, but the thoughts keep coming back. Please God, how do I make these thoughts stop? I want to be at peace Lord, and everythign I do just seems to make it worse.

Answer from God through Carley:

"The need for intimacy in all life is real, and it can be attained in many different ways. Sexual intimacy is only one example of a way to meet these needs. When you have these thoughts and fantasies that disturb you, ask yourself what's missing in your life and then ask yourself (me) what can come to you to help meet your needs. Remember that asking for help is only half the recipe. Your action is also required, along with paying very close attention to the things that subtly come into your field of awareness."
Anonymous said...

Dear God,
I have had the summer of my life, so many good things have happened to me. I found my true friends and joined a new church that suits me best. I met a girl, we had a thing, but her parents wouldnt let her date until shes 16. So we broke up, and im fine with that decision. My problem is im feeling these random moments of sadness, isolation, and anxiety. I worry that I will loose my friends and that I will fail in life. I feel so alone all the time, im confused, these feeling come out of nowhere and they are slowly eatign me apart. Please God, help me, i need You.

Answer from God through Carley:

"Try harder to remember that you are a part of me. We are one. I am present in every being. Actively honor the part of me - and of you - in every single being. When you strive to see me and consequently you in every being, you'll know better that there simply is no isolation. Choose to connect with a smile, with a heart-felt comment, by really listening. Make a list of the things you are grateful for. Add to that list daily. When you choose to look at life from a point of connection with me and with a grateful heart you choose to live. "
Anonymous said...

I dated someone and the moment i saw him i fell in love it was not physical attraction but something i never felt before. we started dateing and he started telling me from the moment he saw me he knew it was fate he couldnt explain it. I never told him but felt the same. Turns out he broke my heart. I moved and and am now engaged. But i think of him constantly. He calls constantly i dont answer. i wonder everyday what if i am supposed to marry him? how do i know?l

Answer from God through Carley:

"In every relationship it is important to know your limits of acceptability. This holds true in employment, friendships, family and in love relationships too - in literally every possible relationship you can have. Know what is acceptable to you and what is not and be ready to hold firm to those limits. Don't react to a situation from the point of view of another, but instead know your own limits.

It is equally important to work diligently toward leaving nothing unsaid in a relationship. Regret and grief is the direct result from not saying what you are feeling and the result is that feeling of unfinished business and doubt.

Search yourself and identify whether or not you have things left to say. If you do, ask for help and for the words that will most accurately state what you are feeling to the other, and know that you will have all you need, when you need it."
Anonymous said...

is marijuana a gift or a curse?

Answer from God through Carley:

"Everything is a gift. How you choose to use anything available to you is entirely up to you. You have complete control, no matter how things seem. If you need help, all you need to do is ask for it and move your feet. Asking for help and continuing to do the same things you were doing allows me no room to bring about a helping effect. Movement toward what you want is crucial and how you allow me into your life."

Sunday, November 1, 2009

Anonymous said...

Dear God,
Should I try to still be with Jason my son's father who doesn't seem to change from his addications or my new boyfriend Chris who is perfect in every way and would be great for me and my kids, I still love Jason but he has hurt me to many times and Chris is so wonderful but I'm not sure I feel that kind of love for him yet. Should I be with Jason or Chris?

Answer from God through Carley:

"You should be with your children. They are precious gifts in need of your love.

Please don't rush to fill a void. If you believe you are ready for your perfect relationship, come to me and ask me for it. Before you do, know exactly what you are looking for. Become the person that your perfect match would fall in love with and stay in love with. When all of these pieces are in place, allow me the space and time to bring you together, paying very close attention to the little things that appear to be coincidences. Continue to ask yourself how you feel when you meet someone, and don't be afraid to act and speak from your heart. Perfect is out there. What you have right now is perfect too."