Saturday, November 28, 2009

Anonymous said...

dear god i am just feel really werid just now i am only 14 years old and i dont no who to talk i well there is this boy i like and he is going with this girl and i like her and everything but she cheated on him with his best friend she only kissed him but he took her back and i fell for him before they got back together and we still talk and evrything but one day he said he liked me and he was still goin with her but then obv he stopped and i think i still like him a lot and i dont know what to do should i stop talking to him and move on or will i still talk to him and do you think i will fall out of love with him i really need your help love youx

Answer from God through Carley:

"You have much living and learning ahead of you. For now, try hard to treat others the way you would appreciate being treated. Try to imagine the conversation in your head as though someone else were having it with you. How would you feel if someone came to you and told you that a boy you were going with cheated on you, even if it was only a kiss? Stop for a second and feel it. How would you respond? How would you feel about the person that told you this? What if you had the conversation with the girl? Would you ask her to treat her boyfriend differently? What words would you use? Perhaps after imagining your conversations with everyone involved, you'll decide to leave it alone and let them work it out for themselves. What you could learn from this is that you can only control how you behave. Falling for someone already in a relationship cannot end well. You have a good heart. Listen to it carefully. That is where you'll find me. Your heart will never steer you down the wrong path."

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