Tuesday, November 3, 2009

Anonymous said...

I dated someone and the moment i saw him i fell in love it was not physical attraction but something i never felt before. we started dateing and he started telling me from the moment he saw me he knew it was fate he couldnt explain it. I never told him but felt the same. Turns out he broke my heart. I moved and and am now engaged. But i think of him constantly. He calls constantly i dont answer. i wonder everyday what if i am supposed to marry him? how do i know?l

Answer from God through Carley:

"In every relationship it is important to know your limits of acceptability. This holds true in employment, friendships, family and in love relationships too - in literally every possible relationship you can have. Know what is acceptable to you and what is not and be ready to hold firm to those limits. Don't react to a situation from the point of view of another, but instead know your own limits.

It is equally important to work diligently toward leaving nothing unsaid in a relationship. Regret and grief is the direct result from not saying what you are feeling and the result is that feeling of unfinished business and doubt.

Search yourself and identify whether or not you have things left to say. If you do, ask for help and for the words that will most accurately state what you are feeling to the other, and know that you will have all you need, when you need it."

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