Tuesday, December 22, 2009

Anonymous said...

I am very troubled by the loss of a friendship with a female friend. We were close and talked about many things, shared many experiences but she suddenly chose to completely reject my friendship. I miss her every day and cannot resolve this loss. I need to know if this friendship can be repaired. It has been months now and I'm still incredibly upset about it. Please help me.

Answer from God through Carley:

"If you could talk with her one last time, what would you say? A sense of loss is felt most strongly when things are left unsaid and undone. It is imperative in a well-lived life to do and say everything you feel and want to say when you feel and want to say it, as long as it is based in love. Saying something to hurt someone that is not based in truth is never necessary. If you feel that there is something you need to say even at this point, say it or write it to assure that you've done all you can do. Once everything that you can do is complete, you can move forward with your life, regardless of the outcome in your relationship. Remember that you cannot change the past. You can however change the moment you are in and the future by keeping your heart open and by speaking and by acting, withholding nothing."

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