Saturday, January 30, 2010

Anonymous said...

Dear God,
I have this good going relationship that we were going for for almost one year and well recently he decided to tell me that he went to another girls house at 3am just because he didn't think it was a big deal, and that it could ever hurt me. Plus it took him 8 months to tell me and i decided to talk to him and express that his love for me has some flaws and he can't keep hiding things like this from me and that i have some doubts. Is that wrong of me to ask? Then he got really angry and mad at me and told me he wouldn't say he loved me till i believed him, that i hurt him alot, and killed his heart. I was really hurt, i didn't eat, i didn't sleep, i studied, i thought of ways all by myself that i can do to help this relationship flow better. Then one day he asked me to forgive him and begged him and promised me that he'll help us go through this together. I did. Then he boiled the arguement up again. I didn't ask alot of people at all i tried to figure everything out by myself. When i did i told him about my plans on how to fix things cause thats how to fix a strong relationship, he discarded them and told me that he asked you if he should still stay with me or not and hes waiting for your answers cause you told him to wait and he told me because hes a pastors son that he had the rights to ask you things like this. I was hurt he didn't have the strength to confronted me about this whole thing, i believed that you'll only come and help if he was willing to take charge in his own discions right? I told him how i felt i was being honest i never did anything to hurt him, my parents are strict about me doing things that could hurt someone and i don't have the heart to do that. So i need help God, am i right or wrong to doubt his love for me? Am i really the one at fault, i'm willing to accept and change my ways, i told him this and i still feel lost one day he said he'll help another day he comes to you asking if you would choose what direction he'll go in. Sorry for such a long question god. If you could answer them for me thank you.

Answer from God through Carley:

"No, you are not wrong. You doubt him because you are right to do so. You are not at fault and you are not imagining anything. Whenever you feel something like this it is because I am communicating it to you. You don't have to listen to your heart, but if you do, you will never be wrong. Your heart is good. I have great plans for you, but while you are in the wrong relationship the right relationship cannot come to you."

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