Monday, June 29, 2009

Anonymous said...

My son Is soon to be 18 and he has not made good decisions. I am torn between making him leave my home or continuing to enable him. He is my child and I wantthe best for him but I don't know what that is. I am doing the right thing?

Answer from God through Carley:

"You will never be wrong when you follow your heart.  When you seek me, search your heart.  I will always be found there fastest.

Enabeling anyone to behave badly or to treat others badly... including you, is never in anyone's best interest.  Usually, enabeling is only the easiest thing to do.

Make sure that the love you have for your son is known in your words but also in your actions. 

Just like when he was young and you set acceptable limits for his behavior, you must also set acceptable limits for his behavior in your life now

Love him firmly while loving yourself.  I'm right here when either of you need me."

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