Saturday, June 5, 2010

Anonymous said...

My husband and I have gone thru some tough situations that strained our marriage and we both made very bad choices. He had affairs, and we separated while he stayed with his latest affair. He says that he wants a divorce so that I don't get the best of him while he works on himself. He still tells me that he loves me and to the best of my knowledge he isn't pursuing the divorce. He still however is in contact with the other woman. I'm confused about what to do. I don't know where God wants me in this relationship. I hold on to him because I love him and also because of our children. Both him and her are currently incarcerated.

Answer from God through Carley:

"I want for you a life filled with love, laughter, true joy and the fulfillment of your every dream.  Isn't that what you want for your children?  Focus on what's important now.  You have children to raise and in raising them you can make the choice to show them what is worth settling for and what is not acceptable.  For you I choose love that lifts you up and that doesn't confuse you but rather grounds you in security.  What do you choose?  I'm right here any time you need help."

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