Saturday, July 31, 2010

Anonymous said...

Dear God,

I am in so much pain. I've lost the man I love, my dog was out to sleep yesterday, my sister is in rehab and doesn't want me in her life, my best friend at work got a new job at another location and my mother has never been there for me. Please take away this heartbreaking feeling I have, show me that someone will love me, forgive all the mistakes I have made in life and if it is your will, please give me one more chance with Bernie. I beg you God to help me get through this suffering that I've lived through for so long. Too much loss to bare.

Answer from God through Carley:

"There is more for you.  You are a beloved child of mine.  You are so much more than enough.  I want to remind you of an agreement that we have for the experiences you have had and will have in this life.  The purpose of all agreed experiences is to eventually obtain total understanding.  Due to your experiences thus far, what do you better understand?  Can you now empathize with those who lose relationships?  Can you now know what others feel when a beloved pet is put to sleep?  Can you offer support to others whose family member is going through rehab?  Can you become the parent you needed and didn't get?  You see, how you react to your experiences is completely up to you and has always been well within your control.

All of your mistakes are forgiven.  When you are ready to release your pain, it will be gone.  And yes, someone will love you as much as you love them.  Keep your heart open and pay attention to little things that point to him.  I am as close to you as your heartbeat, whenever you seek me."

Sunday, July 25, 2010

Tony said...

hi God,

I am a 34 year old male and have been single for my entire life.I have gone out with a few women but the women i go out with always want to be my friend. I dont mind making new friends but I would rather have a wife or at least a girlfriend.

I know I am not the most attractive guy and maybe I aim for women that are out of my league.I am always polite and kind to these women and we always have fun. I am good at making people laugh and showing girlsva good time but I always get the "I just want to be friends" line. Its also strange that I am some how able to get more dates with girls the girls that are ohr of my league but the girls that I think are in my league usually dont give me the time of day.
My question is, will I meet a nice girl soon?

Answer from God through Carley:

"Are you the ideal partner that your ideal partner would want yet?  If not, you have work to do.  Don't worry about which league you or she is in.  Instead, work on the qualities your perfect partner would want and fine-tune your qualities so that they align.  When you ask for my help in anything that is based in love, you have it.  Your part is to do something that will move you toward what you seek."

Thursday, July 22, 2010

valgirl said...

I am having difficulties in my job search. I messed up an interview and didn't get a job that looked ideal-good money, interesting people, semi-interesting work (except for the 1.5 hr commute each way combined w/my 7 mo old daughter). Did I mess up my life by not getting that?
I have been out of work for almost 2 years and am worried that I am not going to get a good job at a good pay rate. Please help.

-V
 
Answer from God through Carley:

"Why do you think that you messed-up the interview?

The situations you find yourselves in now are certainly different than the circumstances of recent past times.  It would make sense that you change what you've been doing in present times, but do you think that a 1.5 hour commute each way is the thing to change?

Whenever you find yourself in a repetitive struggle, step back from your situation and re-examine it.  What do you do repetitively that isn't bringing the results you seek?  Define what it is that you really need.  Examine what is most important to you and to those that depend upon you.  When you ask me for help please know that you will always have it, but it is you who must take action.  If a specific thing that you think might be the best thing for you doesn't happen, try to keep an open mind about it.  Perhaps the best thing is just around the corner and you haven't even thought of it yet."

Tuesday, July 20, 2010

Anonymous said...

Is ther hope for our son to turn himself around and get off drugs?


Answer from God through Carley:

"In every second of every day there is new hope.  If ever a new start is desired it only takes a decision for it to be so.

I would like you to remember that you only control your own free will.  Try to let go of the notion that you can make anyone else do anything.  Do what you feel you must to protect yourself and others that ask for your protection, while offering your love without condoning decisions made by others that cause you pain or loss.

 Just as you are never without me when you seek me, neither is any being."

Sunday, July 18, 2010

Lena A said...

I really just need to know. Lately I've been just.. so confused about things.. I don't even know what's real and what's fake anymore. I mean, I thought for a long time Paranormal Activity was real, and I read a lot about stuff like Paranormal activity and now I'm getting scared easily. I guess it's my fault for watching the movie and stuff, but I would want to know if all that evil is real. Because I don't believe anything so evil can exist. I believe that good can take power over evil right? If that makes any sense. I'd also like to know more things. Like what is my purpose in life, my specific purpose, and what is the reason for my existence. I have so many questions I can't really think of them all right now. But I'd really love to know all the answers. And I'd truly appreciate it. I know I've made a lot of mistakes and I'm terribly sorry for that. I really am. I honestly wish though, that I could be perfect. My painful shyness affects my life so bad and I just wish that could change. It hurts to be so shy, and so easily embarrassed and sensitive. I can't ever take a joke because I get offended and hurt easily. Can I change that? I don't know how. I'd love to heal the world, make a change, make a difference. I'd love to help others too. But I don't know how. What can I do? I also hope I'm not bothering anyone in any way by asking so much questions because that is not my intention.

Answer from God through Carley:

"You are a beloved child of mine and I couldn't be more pleased with you.  Everything you are going through, have gone through and will go through is of your own design.  You are living your agreement.  That said, you experience what you experience, in accordance with our agreement and the ultimate goal is for you to gain total understanding.  I have such an agreement in place with every being.  While what you experience was designed and agreed to by us both long ago, how you react to each situation you face is entirely up to you.

Is there evil in the world?  Yes.  But there is nothing so evil that light cannot heal.  In even the darkest corners a single match can allow you to find your way out.  And most definitely, good has much more power than evil.  Everything that happens - good or evil - begins with a choice made.

Your life purpose is yours to choose.  Find what you are passionate about and follow that.  And your shyness might just be something you choose to change about yourself.  Or perhaps you'll overcome it enough to help others deal with their own shyness.  As far as healing the world you have great power to do just that.  Every time you hold the door for another person, listen when a friend is hurting, smile at a stranger, you help heal the world.  You may never know how far-reaching an act of kindness is, but I see it.

Every time you talk to me, every time you ask for help, I'm listening and I'm helping you.  What you might have forgotten is that I am only half of any prayer's answer.  You are the other half.  Together we can do great things.  Ask me for help when you sense you need it, take a deep breath and get going.  Your future is as bright as you choose it will be.  I believe in you."
Anonymous said...

I've been talking to you recentley about maybe sending me back in time. I know its crazy. But i really want to go back to the medievil times. So are you not allowing me.

Answer from God through Carley:

"I understand why you are so attracted to this time.  I understand your wish to return there.  I also know that you are more than brave enough to stay here and defend honor and integrity where you are truly needed.  You will find your way when you spend time doing some thing each day that gives you true joy, when you do small kind acts for those you know as well as for those you do not know, and when you share your passions with others who enjoy the same things.  You will always have my help in all things based in love.  You must be the one to go out into the world and do all of the things that will make you happy as well as find your place here."

Saturday, July 17, 2010

BW said...

I am learning so many new things. Thank you. You know that I want prosperity, a quality loving relationship and less worry. Am I on the right track? Will I achieve this? Will I find that relationship soon? Will it be with my "old one" only under different circumstances? I do miss him.

What are you willing to tell me about these issues?

With gratitude,

BW

Answer from God through Carley:

"You are learning new things because you have chosen to.  Thank you.  And yes, you can have all the things you seek and so much more.  Each of you can.  It was never my intent for any of you to know a life of lack.  What you seek has always been well within your own grasp.  Will you achieve it?  That is completely up to you.  How hard are you willing to work for it?  And wouldn't you agree that you miss the relationship and not so much the him?  Open your heart to new possibilities and become the perfect partner your perfect partner would want.  I will always be as close to you as your heartbeat whenever you seek me."

Wednesday, July 14, 2010

Olympia said...

I believe with everything that is in me that I have found the man I am meant to marry. He has recently broken up with me and he is over seas at war and I cannot reach out to him the way i would like if he was here. I really dont want to lose him forever. Please tell me what to do. I love him.

Answer from God through Carley:

"Examine why he broke off your relationship.  It is one thing to want a relationship with him, but in order for you to have a healthy relationship he must want it too.  If you feel as though you have unfinished business, by all means finish it.  If he doesn't know how you feel, tell him in a letter.  For this particular situation, but for life in general, leave nothing unsaid or undone.  If after you say all there is to say you can have no regrets regardless of how the relationship evolves.  Remember that you cannot control his free will, but you certainly control your own.  Lead with love and know that I am with you."

Sunday, July 11, 2010

Jamy said...

oh god. Wat is there left to do? i really like this guy butt the last time i told him i like him he said he does to butt he didt want a girlfriend at the moment. And then went ahead and dated me best friend. However a little time after that we started talkin agin and it seemed lik we had been friends forever, he was like a little brother to me. butt then something happened afterwards that made him stop talking to me and then soon we went are seperat ways. I still liked him butt i wanted him more as a friend to i explained that i wanted to be friends and he said ok and he was glad, then we became close and great friends. i thought it was always going to be lik that till i git the feelin i liked him more than that agin. he then broke up with his girl friend and we hung out more and then school ended. i still really like him butt he doesnt know and when i asked if he would come to the movies, a night i had planned for a whole month, he said he couldn't go and i felt this deepness inside that hurt. I still have to go to the movies with my friends, and im still hurt:( i need lots of advice in two ways. i want to know if i should just let him go even though he tells my best friend he likes me just a bit for now? Or should i keep my hopes high? And should ikeep bing his friend or stop, from all the pain inside i feel that i cannot tell him about? Help?

Answer from God through Carley:

"Search your heart.  Your heart is where I am.  If you and he were right, it would have happened.  When things don't happen, don't take it personally as absolutely nothing is personal, but realize that he meant what he said; it wasn't right for him.  Remember, when you are in the wrong relationship, your right relationship cannot find you.  Every time you speak to me I hear you and I answer you.  All you have to do to find what you seek is to ask for help, and then move toward it."

Thursday, July 8, 2010

Anonymous said...

I have an addiction to Internet Junk. I've tried differnt ways to get out, but it never works. What do i do?

Answer from God through Carley:

"The Human spirit is a source of great joy, often surprising and most resourceful.  If ever you're interested and want to look into some stories of what Humans are able to overcome; you might come to understand that you too are capable of literally anything you want to accomplish.  The key however is how important is it to you to change?  I will help you if you ask for it, but all the forward movement must come from you."

Tuesday, July 6, 2010

Anonymous said...

Is practicing Wicca wrong?

Answer from God through Carley:

"Any practice that is based in love is not wrong.  Seek what feels right to you.  You may find several different practices before the one that feels best to you, and over time even that may change.  The only thing I ask of you is that you do not judge.  I'm always available to you whenever you seek me."

Saturday, July 3, 2010

Anonymous said...

God,

I've asked you several times if it was a mistake to try for custody of Lacey. Now it seems we are even a joke to our attorney. Can we please be part of Laceys life and not be punished for what her parents did?
 
Answer from God through Carley:

"When you fight for someone you love it is never a mistake.  Keep your love for the child in the forefront of all of your actions and realize that every child loves their parents, regardless of how the parents treat the child.  The question I want you to ask yourself when faced with what feels like adversity; "Is this an obstacle or an opportunity for something different?"  Even when it feels as though I am not answering your prayers, look to see what different solutions I am bringing you."

Thursday, July 1, 2010

Jonathan [W] said...

Hey, me and my fiancé just split up a little over a month ago. The breakup wasn't sudden, we had talked about it and decided several times to try and work it out. I wasn't being myself for the last 6 months of our 2+ year relationship. I had battled an addiction to pornography, jealousy, being selfish, and living my life out of lust. This caused me to ulitimately be a jerk to her. She has been so content on working things out and wanting me to change my ways, but since we split and I really got the opportunity to see how I was acting and how the things I was doing affected our relationship, she says she no longer has feelings for me and I should just move on. I really realize what she means to me and I have expressed my feelings only for her to shoot me down on the opportunity of another chance. She was normaly quick to turn to god about troubling issuses but is now heading down the road of partying and running around with her single friends. I have prayed that god open a door for me to make things right with her and for a chance to rebuild our relationship. I am much closer to god than I was a couple months ago. I have always been a Christian I just haven't always lead that life. I feel extremely heartbroken and all I want is to reconcile with her. Is there anything god can do to help my situation. Everyone in her family wishes she would give me another chance she just won't even talk to them about it. What should I do. I am lost without the lords guidance.

Answer from God through Carley:

"The past cannot be undone.  You can choose to use the outcome of past actions and consequences as your teacher for the future.  You are the only one who controls your actions.  It is unfortunate that you weren't aware of how your actions affected your relationship until you were out of it, but choose to learn moving forward.

The heart you broke was your own.  Forgive yourself, make better choices in the future and work toward becoming the man your perfect match would want to have in their life.  When you need help, you you must ask for it and then take action on your own behalf, knowing that I will always do my part."