Friday, December 31, 2010

Anonymous said...

I feel so lost. I don't want to hurt my husband, but I need to leave him. I've left him before, and going back to him was a mistake. He is not my soulmate. I've stayed for so long because of my own lack of self confidence. I need to leave, but i don't yet have the financial means to do so. I'm trying so hard to make ends meet. Please help me to find a way to leave, and be able to adeqately take care of my two girls, to make them happy, and to finally find the man that I am MEANT to spend the rest of my life with. Please help me. I'm 37 and I feel like I'm 80. I have so much to give the right person, and I will do everything I can to give the best to my two children....please, please help me!

Answer from God through Carley:

"Countless people stay in unsatisfying relationships because they fear the loss of income that leaving would produce. What are you teaching your children about love and dreams and what they can expect in their own lives when you stay in an unfulfilling relationship?

You have now and have always had the courage you need to make your dreams come true.  It was never my intent for you to have a life of lack or for you to live one moment settling for anything less than your biggest dreams.  You have my help every time you ask for it, but the actual physical movement can only come from you."

Sunday, December 26, 2010

Anne said...

I'm torn. Of course, its with love..see, I am in love with my five year long best friend and I have a crush on one of my new friends and he has a crush on me to. The problem is that 1. The best friend goes through girls like water, 2. I want us to be together but so many forces are against us, 3. I'm not even really sure I would like to be together with my new friend, 4. I've only dated one other person in my life and I was hurt so bad from it that I became afraid to try again. So, I guess i'm just asking for guidance. Please answer me..

Answer from God through Carley:

"Remember what it's like to try to find the perfect outfit for a special occasion?  Sometimes the outfits you see on the hanger don't look nearly as good as you thought they would, and yet other outfits you thought would never do, can actually be exactly what you were looking for.  Dating can be that way too.  Sometimes you need to try someone on to see if the fit is good, but you don't need to settle for someone you already know.  Find a passion of yours and then find others who share your passion.  Take a class or join a group of people who gather doing what you love to too.  The best relationships can be formed around sharing even a single thing that gives you both true joy.  In your search, please don't give up anything that's important to you in order to be with another.  If it feels right, try it on.  If it feels wrong, keep looking. Don't be afraid to be hurt again.  While no one enjoys an aching heart, I think that most would agree that trying to love and failing at first is better than never trying to love at all.  If you'd like my help in finding the right one for you, all you need to do is ask for it and then move your feet in the direction of what gives you true joy and pay attention to all the little things that come your way."

Tuesday, December 21, 2010

Connor said...

Dearest Friend,

I know you, and you know me. We both know our relationship is strong. With that said, I have read your responses to these questions, and I know they are real. Though I have told you many times, I feel I must tell you again: Thank You for everything. My life, my faith, everything that makes me unique. All my life I have asked for one thing: wisdom. To understand the ways of the universe and approach events in my life wisely. Being the amazing love-filled friend you are, you have granted me this gift. But I must ask for one more thing. It is not material or necessarily for my personal gain, so I ask for this completely selflessly, and I think it would be so cool to see you straight up type it back to me! (You know how I am, I find joy in things like that haha!) Plus, I really need a direct answer to this question... it's the only one I can think to ask... Anyway here it goes: Will you give me the courage to express my faith openly to others, and even when they mock me or make harsh and cruel jokes, give me the courage to stand strong and defend my love for you publicly in they eyes of those who are blinded by hate? How can I go about doing this? (If you feel as though I asked two questions, please just answer one. Thanks! :] )

I love you so much.

Your good friend,


Answer from God through Carley:

"I do so enjoy you.  Within you is all the courage you will ever need.  Your faith can be expressed in so many different ways.  You can speak about your relationship with me, you can live your life as an example of how joy-filled and peaceful a life can be,  you can teach meditation or yoga or preach in a church to those looking to know me better.  You can even run a blog.  As the giver of free-will, I really want you to hear me, and speak to those who are ready to and who want to listen.  Imposing your beliefs on another is not what I want you to do.  Every being is on their place on their path just as they have agreed to be.  I have used you as a teacher for others and I will continue to do so as long as you remain willing to teach, but honor the free-will given to every being.  You can only control your words and actions and trying to impose your beliefs on another does not honor me.  Live your life true to the beautiful being that you are, use and continue to gather wisdom.  Be the unassuming observer and keep your ready smile ever-ready.  You really have no idea how many you have already lifted up just by offering a simple smile."

Sunday, December 19, 2010

Anonymous said...

Dear God,

I am concerned about my brother. As you know, he is a cancer survivor. Thank you for being with him/us through all of that...I felt your presence on many levels and am so grateful.

At 58 yrs of age he lost his job of many years and is having trouble finding a job. You have blessed me with a good job and I have been able to help him somewhat...thank you! I just pray from the bottom of my heart that he will find work and be ok.

Thank you for all your blessings...I know there are more than I'm even aware of.

Answer from God through Carley:

"Thank you for loving your brother so much.  Please remember that you can only walk on your path.  The experiences one has in life are agreed to before life begins.  Your brother is in the midst of his agreement just as you are in yours.  I am always right here and ready to help."

Saturday, December 18, 2010

 LookingForLove said...

Dear God,

I have been single for over 5 years now. I am 31 years old and want more then anything to fall in love and be loved and get married and have a family. I have been waiting for the right person to come along to do that. I recently learned that a good friend of mine is in love with me. When I look deep into my heart I don´t feel that I am in love with her. But it seems like life circumstances brought us together and it makes me wonder if You brought us together because she is the one I should be with. I feel like it could be ok but it also feels that I would be settling. Then I wonder if perhaps I just want too much in a woman and should just be happy going out with my friend. I have no idea what to do. I am trying to figure out if you want me to be with my friend or if I should continue to wait to meet my dream come true. What do you want me to do my Lord?
Answer from God through Carley:

"I want you to be happy.  Happy doesn't mean settling.  Settling doesn't honor either of you, or me.  Life is best lived out loud, where you want to shout from the rooftops how you feel completely enveloped in love and that the laughter you share is food for your souls and that while everything may not be perfect, you are perfect together, and where there may be pain it will be tempered by your want to be together.  You have a great love story in you, if you choose to write it.  If anyone comes from me, you'll know it because it will be perfect, but you'll never find perfect by waiting.  Finding requires looking."
Anonymous said...


If you see that I'm in so much pain, why won't you answer me? I pray every night that you hear me but you never respond. My faith in you dies everyday. I don't know what to do. All I want to do is die. I feel there is no purpose for me on earth but to be an mosquito, living off others lives. I can't do it anymore. The guilt inside is overcoming my soul. I've tried so hard to forget but i can't. And then this constant pain of not being loved by others just makes it worse. I seem happy on the outside but when I lay down in my bed at night, I can't help but to cry. Please, answer me or just take my life. If I died this very second, I would die with a smile. I don't think 17 year olds should be like this.

Answer from God through Carley:

"I do not take lives, and even if I did I would interrupt our agreement for the experiences that you will have in this life.  I gave you free will and with that gift you get to choose how you feel, how you think and how you react to every situation.  The purpose of our agreement is so that you will understand everything eventually from personal or near-personal experience.  If you were to give up on our agreement now, the only thing that would change is your form.  Our agreement remains in place until it is completed in a single life or in many lives.

No matter what you think, I do hear you and I do answer you, and I'm answering you again now in this format.  No purpose?  You can have any purpose at all!  Anything that you truly love to do can be your purpose.  If you haven't discovered it yet, don't worry about it but instead get out there and try new things.  No matter how big your dream is, there will always be a way for you to do it.  Instead of lying in your bed at night and crying, plan your tomorrow instead.  What will you do?  With whom will you do it?  How will you create your next adventure?

Guilt?  Perhaps it's time to forgive yourself, if you truly believe that there is something to feel guilt about.  Yesterdays cannot be undone, but the really exciting part is that every moment offers a new beginning.  Please stop wasting your moments thinking that you have no choices.  Ask me for help in anything you seek that is based in love and know that you will have my help.  If ever you feel disconnected from me again put your hand upon your heart and feel me, beating inside your chest."

Sunday, December 12, 2010

shera said...

have been noticing you more lately.

I wanted to ask if I should attempt to become more fully evolved by focusing primarily on my spirituality OR If I should continue the slow process of developing spiritually while focusing on my dream? If I focus on my spirituality more I think I may move away from the city.

The other thing is, my dream to be a singer has become less appealing now that I have realized the joys of being more spiritual. I feel a bit confused but happier than before.

Thank you for bringing me to a place of healing and for this wonderful existence.

Answer from God through Carley:

"Following your dreams will give you true joy.  In joy, your spirituality will evolve in ways you cannot currently imagine.  When you allow your true nature to emerge, all that you seek will simply come.  All of your choices matter in your personal evolution: where you live, with whom you spend time, how you choose to see the events of the day. Choose wisely after first seeking the advice of your heart.  When you speak to me I always listen."

Monday, December 6, 2010

G. A. said...

Dear God, my question to you is one I have been asking for almost two years now. I want to know if it is possible to win my ex wife back and what it is that I should do to do this succesfully? As you know she is not communicating with me and has all but eliminated anyway for me to reach her almost since the day she left. I don't want to add details that would make it easy for a human to answer this question, but since you know me and my situation I want an answer from you that proves you are truly answering me. Please God, I love this woman with all my heart and want to renconcile and be given another chance. I will do whatever it is that you ask of me. Thanks

Answer from God through Carley:

"You cannot control the free will of another, just as no one but you controls your words and actions.  I have heard your question and I have answered it, but mine has not the been the answer you seek and you have chosen not to hear me.  In your next relationship, decide to make different mistakes.  The only moment you have in your control is the one you are in.  The past cannot be undone.  Move forward with a clear idea of what you would create for yourself in the future and if you are not yet the perfect partner for your next perfect partner, make changes.  When you ask for my help you get it. Whether you hear me or not, is always up to you."
Tarek said...

DO you know me?

if you do please help me out!
Answer from God through Carley:

"Yes, I do know you.  I have and will continue to help you out.  What are you willing to do to bring about change?"

Sunday, December 5, 2010

Anonymous said...

Hi God, I was just wondering what Brian is doing with all of that money you have him asking the questioners for. I am a man of limited means and $150 is nearly as unattainable to me as $1000. So, I guess my question is whether or not Brian will make his financial information available to the people who are graciously paying him so you may speak to us through him. I would also like to know if you thing Brian is a scam artist or not. I will take your opinion and answers on this very seriously.

Answer from God through Carley:

"This is a blog that was created so that everyone who has a single question of me can have the answer received and posted here at no charge for anyone's time.  Your answer; no Brian is not a scam artist and neither is Carley.  What they do for you and for everyone willing to ask a question of me is to allow you to know me better than you did before you asked."

Friday, December 3, 2010

Anonymous said...

We haven't spoken in a very long time, and to be quite honest I really don't think you exist, well no more than I think Zeus, Horus or any other deity exists. But if you do, I hope you would understand how I couldn't rationally arrive at any other conclusion. I mean with the free will paradox, edited and mistranslated scripture, not to mention the countless religions that predated any Abrahamic religion with virtually the exact same story- I do hope you can understand why I like many others don't see the substantial leverage yours could hold to being true over any others. But maybe if you do exist, you can explain this to me on my "Judgment Day." What I'm curious about are your true feelings regarding homosexuality. B/c for years I pleaded with you to make me straight, and obviously I'm still gay. I know 100% in my heart that I was born this way and I don't see anything wrong with it. I believe love is tender and knows no gender. But I have to ask, if you think it is such an abomination, why did you make so many gay people?

Answer from God through Carley:

"I would no sooner think you are an abomination than I would think that I am, as you and I share the same DNA.  Please filter all you hear, read and what others claim to believe through your heart.  If something feels right to you, it is.  If something feels wrong to you, it is.  The mind can only struggle with your heart if you allow your mind to claim superiority.  When you seek me, you can always find me in your heart and all the answers to all the questions reside there.  All you have to do is ask your questions and feel the answers.

I will not make you "straight" because you chose to come into this life as a "gay".  I also do not see anything wrong with any sexual orientation, race, or even religion for that matter.  Your sense of knowing is exactly correct.

You are a beloved, precious child of mine and the purpose of life is to gain eventual total understanding.  The sexual orientation that you chose to have in this life is only one of the things you agreed to experience."

Thursday, December 2, 2010

Natasha said...

Dear God,

I stumbled upon your site and am deeply disturbed. I thought I was an atheist, in fact I left my church over four years ago. I've had so many questions I asked that went unanswered. Well, I guess this is my last chance to get an answer. And you must know what my questions have been all along, but I guess I should reiterate the biggest one at least. Why God, after a lifetime of service and dedication to your church and wanting nothing more than to do good for other people, why after all that loyalty couldn't you ease the pain I felt inside? I prayed everyday two main things, that you could make me stronger so that I could help others, and that you'd give me a little peace from the suffering I endured. My question is why didn't you do this for me?
Answer from God through Carley:

"I am sorry for your pain, however you have always had within you the answers to your questions.  Mine is a quiet voice often heard best in whispers of the heart and in a glimmer of coincidence that often goes un-inspected.  I do not have a church, and in leaving yours you did not leave me, but rather the people that ran the church.  Service can be done everywhere.  You choose what you want to do.  If service in a church is what you are passionate about then I applaud you, but if you are passionate about helping children or the elderly, the homeless, animals, the environment... all I ask is for you to follow your passion.  Finding true joy in life is the antidote to pain.  I hear you every time you speak to me.  Please allow my answers to come through to you.  All you have to do is to pay close attention and have no pre-concieved ideas about how they will come."
Anonymous said...

Creator, which path would you like me to take....the Orting Indian ed Program, working with Laura Wong-White Bear or stay where I am?

Answer from God through Carley:

"I would like you to take any path that brings you the most joy.  I will not pick for you.  With the gift of free will comes your need to choose.  If you need help discovering which one feels best to you, find or create a quiet space.  Close your eyes and imagine what each one will feel like.  Your heart always speaks to you.  All you need to do is listen and then act."
Jerilyn said...

Have I been all you wanted me to become in my life time ?

Answer from God through Carley:

"I have no expectations for you life.  I give your life to you.  Have you been all you wanted you to become?  You are the only one in control of your life, no matter how it feels at certain times you are the master of your every moment.  If ever you need me, I'm right here always listening when you speak to me and always ready to help when you ask me to."

Wednesday, December 1, 2010

Carol said...

Hello; I would like to know if my mother forgives me for not staying longer during visiting hours the day she died in hospital.

My brother also died. I would like to know if my brother is ok.

Thank you

Answer from God through Carley:

"Actually she says that there is nothing for her to forgive, and that you must only forgive yourself.  Once a body dies, the soul is returned to a state that is stripped of past experiences.  All that remains is love and compassion.  Your mother only holds deep love and gratitude for your willingness to be in her life.

Your brother is here in Heaven.  Death is only difficult for those left behind.  When you talk to me I hear you.  I am here to help you any time you ask me to."
Anonymous said...

Dear God,

As you know, my life has changed entirely during the past five years. I feel pretty worn out from the changes, and although I've built a new life and have made wonderful new friends and even a sweetheart, I feel an emptiness I can't seem to dispel. I feel as if the purpose of my life, why I'm here, isn't being met. I don't know how to bring more meaning to what I do--the people I interact with, the quality of my days. Please guide me. Thank you.

Answer from God through Carley:

"The only thing missing is your passion.  What really grabs you?  What thing can you do with such a sense of abandon that you can completely lose track of time?  If you haven't anything exactly like that yet, start seeking for that special thing.  You've already asked for my help and you have had it, but keep seeking.  Try new things.  Pay attention to coincidence as that is how I speak to you.  Once you find that special thing, your passion will be back and then all things will align and you'll be living your life and not just going through the motions that some people do."