Saturday, December 18, 2010

 LookingForLove said...

Dear God,

I have been single for over 5 years now. I am 31 years old and want more then anything to fall in love and be loved and get married and have a family. I have been waiting for the right person to come along to do that. I recently learned that a good friend of mine is in love with me. When I look deep into my heart I don´t feel that I am in love with her. But it seems like life circumstances brought us together and it makes me wonder if You brought us together because she is the one I should be with. I feel like it could be ok but it also feels that I would be settling. Then I wonder if perhaps I just want too much in a woman and should just be happy going out with my friend. I have no idea what to do. I am trying to figure out if you want me to be with my friend or if I should continue to wait to meet my dream come true. What do you want me to do my Lord?
 
Answer from God through Carley:

"I want you to be happy.  Happy doesn't mean settling.  Settling doesn't honor either of you, or me.  Life is best lived out loud, where you want to shout from the rooftops how you feel completely enveloped in love and that the laughter you share is food for your souls and that while everything may not be perfect, you are perfect together, and where there may be pain it will be tempered by your want to be together.  You have a great love story in you, if you choose to write it.  If anyone comes from me, you'll know it because it will be perfect, but you'll never find perfect by waiting.  Finding requires looking."

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