Saturday, January 29, 2011

Anonymous said...

so many things have been happening in my life that just aren't right. Why, every time I think things are going to be better something else happens that makes my life even worse? have you given up on me? I just don't understand.

Answer from God through Carley:
 
"I will never give up on you, and I hope you never do either.  Remember the gift of free will?  Everyone has it.  Sometimes others use their free will in a way that hurts you.  You cannot control what others say and do, but you can certainly exercise your own free will to allow only the people you choose into your life.  You get to choose.  I'm here to help you any time you ask for it.  Only you can be the movement toward what you actually want in your life."

Thursday, January 27, 2011

Anonymous said...

what should i do now...? i am scared... i think i lost my mind...

Answer from God through Carley:

"Breathe first.  Deeply, slowly, until you can get no more breath in.  Slowly exhale that breath, noticing how your body moves, how your breath sounds, how much more calm you feel.  As you take more breaths like that, imagine that your feet have lovely roots deep into the soil of the earth below you.  Feel those roots connect you to all life.  Picture the column of light that connects me to you from far above you through the top of your head, way down past you deep into the earth.  Imagine that this column of light is pure and white and then imagine it even wider than your body.

You have not lost your mind.  It would help you to practice breathing like this when you feel lost, or even better before you do.  A practice of centering, or allowing me in is a good practice that will keep us connected.  I'm very glad you asked.  Talk with me whenever you'd like."

Wednesday, January 26, 2011

Anonymous said...

I had to break up with my long term and first boyfriend. It ended because he just couldn't give up his bad habits and chose to lie to me about hanging out with a bad friend. I still really love him and I had hoped he would keep his promise to become the person he can. I asked you for strength, help, support, forgiveness, and for you to help him through his bad times. He has not tried to talk to me at all today. Am i not worth it? Am I not worth the one I love?

I would at least like to know that. and if we will ever make it through this rough patch and how long i should wait before giving up hope completelty.

Answer from God through Carley:

"In your next relationship, try to love the person as they are, with no changes needed in order for you to want to be with them, and continue to be with them.  You cannot control the free will of another and trying to do so will never work out.  If a person is to change it can only be their idea to do so and all the energy it takes to make a lasting change must come from them."

Friday, January 21, 2011

Anonymous said...

Matthew has broken my heart. Will he come back to me?

Answer from God through Carley:

"By now you've learned that it took time, the love of your friends and family and finally your desire to feel better in order to heal your broken heart.  Do not be afraid to love again.  While it is true that when you open your heart to another you allow yourself to be vulnerable to heartache, there is such beauty in the kind of love you offer.  The pain you felt was deep, but rare. If you still feel as though you have some pain to release, come to me and ask me to take it away.  When the next potential love comes along, ask your heart if he is the next one for you.  Trust the first answer you get.  I always answer immediately."

Wednesday, January 19, 2011

Anonymous said...

how did i get myself into this predicament?

Answer from God through Carley:

"Your choices determine the route you take to every destination.  As far as what you did to get where you are, learn and make better choices for yourself in the future if you wish for a different outcome.  Try to not think in the moment, but rather allow yourself room in your decision-making process to take a look at the potential outcome of your decisions before you make them.  Ask yourself how your decision will feel the day after you make it, a week after and a year after.  If you feel good about the way you expect to feel, than it will be a good decision for you.  Only move in the directions that feel good to you and you honor you, me and all of those you love."

Monday, January 17, 2011

Anonymous said...

Hello God,

There is this girl that I really like in my class that has been giving me random signals. I am not sure if she likes me or not. At times, I feel like she really likes me and other times I feel like she doesn't know I exist. I am a really shy guy and is too afraid to ask. What should I do?

-Anonymous

Answer from God through Carley:

You are a wonderful person with so many beautiful attributes. The truth is that you are not going to get a yes every time you approach a person and offer them a chance to get to know you better.  But if you don't try, you'll never get a yes.  Conversely, do you really want to know someone better who gives you such mixed signals?  Can you imagine what more of the same could feel like in a relationship?  You are going to be fine.  Shy is not necessarily a bad thing.  Trust your heart in matters where you aren't certain and make sure you go after what you think could possibly be good for you.  When you need help, ask me.  I'm always listening when you speak to me."

Friday, January 14, 2011

Anonymous said...

Dear god, my fiance' says she doesn't love me enough to marry me, and even though i pray to you constantly seeking wisdom about this situation, you always tell me to wait, i am so confused. What do you want me to do? Please give me wisdom, please give me understanding, i am trusting in you. I also ask that you give my fiance' guidance as to what to do, she is conflicted by the thoughts in her head lord, what do you desire us to do?

Answer from God through Carley:

"I want you to be with someone who is certain that you are the one she wants.  I want you both to know without any doubt that you are together because you love each other so much that you simply cannot imagine life without the other.  If you do not have that, wait until you do.  I do not mean to tell you to wait for your present situation to change.  I mean to tell you to wait until you find the kind of love that you deserve, that you both deserve.  When you seek answers try to be open to answers that you do not anticipate so that you can hear me more clearly.  You are all beloved children of mine and I want great love for each of you.  Great love exists for everyone, however the right relationship cannot be found when you are in the wrong relationship."

Tuesday, January 11, 2011

Anonymous said...

Hi I have been wanting a baby for 12 years. I have never been pregnant at all. My fertility has caused the most stress in my life. There is nothing more want from god and life but to be fruitful and multiply. I mean that literally. I want to know If and When will i become pregnant? Please and Thank You


TTS

NYAF


Answer from God through Carley:

"What if your agreement with me is that you are not to become pregnant in this life?  Where else could you put your heart's desires? Determine what it is about wanting to have your own children that captures your heart most and see if there is another area where you could direct that desire.  There are many children that have no parents and their biggest desire is to be adopted into a family.  There are many centers, shelters, schools filled with children who need love, direction and stability.  If ever you get ready to find a new heart's desire, ask me for help and begin moving toward what you think might capture your heart most.  I'm right here to help you every time you ask."

Sunday, January 2, 2011

RR said...

I hear you but I am not clear. Is CP the person who is also writing "my" book? In essence is the book CP has "plotted out" and "ready to write" the CC book we are working on?

Answer from God through Carley:

"Trust your inner voice.  When you have questions sit in silence and ask your heart for the answers.  You already know your answers and asking the same questions repeatedly won't change them."

Saturday, January 1, 2011

Anonymous said...

I find myself struggling with where I fit. Am I a good mom and have I made the right choices. Why has the last three years been so heartbreaking and will we ever get through this stuggles? I know you know the two main ones I mention. They are breaking me. All I want is to know my boys will be happy and I am doing all I can for them. I pray soon we can start a little new from where we are.

Answer from God through Carley:

"You are living an agreement you made with me.  What you are experiencing is exactly what you asked to experience.  The purpose of our agreements is to allow you to achieve eventual total understanding.  Please allow these words to soothe you.

All the answers to your questions reside within your heart.  How do you feel?  Do you feel as though you are a good mom?  Do you feel as though you've make the right choices?  What can you learn from the heartbreak and struggles?  How will you allow your experiences to change you?  What will you do differently moving forward?  What do your choices say to your children about you, your future and how important they are to you?  I am with you always.  Ask for my help and know that you have it.  If you seek change, the act that brings about the change must come from you."