Tuesday, September 13, 2011

Anonymous said...

Dear God,

As of course You already know, I am engaged to be married in January.

I had given myself completely to this wonderful man that you had presented me with. We have now been together for almost 8 years, and engaged for 5.

Father, a few months ago I started developing feelings for another man, who is my friend.

I am falling deeply in love with him Father.

Lord, I have decided up to now that I will still marry my fiance, because I had promised to marry him and because I do love him, though i am scared that I will not be happy because I am in love with this other man.

Father, please help me... I am confused and I am crying my heart out. I want to be happy and I want to love this man and be with him, but I cannot find it in my heart to hurt my fiance, who loves me very much and feels that he cannot live without. at the same time I do not want to hurt my friend who is also falling in love with me. What exactly should I do Lord?

Answer from God through Carley:

"You honor no one by moving forward toward marriage with so many doubts. Would you want anyone to marry you not because they were so deeply in love with you, but because they didn't want to hurt you by telling you that they were having doubts?  Love is also about friendship, honor and integrity.  Show those things to your fiance by telling him the way you feel.  If you ask for my help in finding the right words, you will have it."

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